My thoughts on the Stewardship of Mothers

 
 In my circle of "friends", there are many women who are praying for their husband's heart to soften toward the idea of adding another child to their family.

In my years of experience and observation, I've never really known of many husbands to go around saying to their wives, "Oh honey, I think we should do this, let's please add another child or two or three to our family!" 

Not even among the good and Godly men.

Since the beginning of time, woman has been instrumental in bringing about the family of man. When Adam and Eve were sent from the garden out into the world, Eve was told to bring forth children and Adam was told to work and provide for them.

Traditionally, as God ordained, the woman is the mother, the one who spends most of her time with the children, nurturing, feeding, washing and teaching them.   
Traditionally, as God ordained, the father is the one who goes to work and provides for his family... thus naturally causing him some alarm at the thought of providing for more children.

Both parents are giving service which is love, both interact with their children and of course both parents are responsible for their children's moral and religious example and training until they are grown (and after that we keep on loving and praying for them).

But here is a thought whispered gently to me by the Spirit: When it comes to knowing when it's time to add another child, it is the Mother's stewardship. It is a spiritual, God-given gift to women.

It's natural for a woman to be the one who wants another child. 

Heavenly Father's desire for his children is for them to have loving families.

Of course we must use wisdom. Heavenly Father doesn't expect us to run faster than we are able. But He does expect us to grow.

Women should pray for their husbands and do all they can to bless their lives. Respect and support them in their callings and stewardships. Never say gossipy things--never ever on facebook or other social networking methods! Be trustworthy with his heart.  Be cheerful and find time to go out alone together with your husband once a week.

Men should pray for their wives and respect their callings and stewardships. Ask your Father in Heaven in humble and sincere prayer, in your own words and on your knees, to give you instruction about how your family should be grown. Ask a specific question and end your prayer in the name of Jesus Christ. Then wait and listen for peace, warmth, or joy. It may not be immediate but if it's right, you will receive an answer in a way you will understand.

The Lord provides for his children. I know this. If you're doing what's right, He will bless you.

I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Here is a talk you may find helpful, by President Hinckley, titled: "These, Our Little Ones"